Surrogation – Learn From The Mistakes Of Others And Avoid Failure



hey it's nyle today I'm in a famous international City let's see if you can guess which one okay so that was pretty obvious I'm in good ol London here near Buckingham Palace just down the road and sure you know what we do a quick London montage to kick things off so I'm loving it here so far we arrived in the middle of a heat wave everyone seems to be in good form but I'm not here to talk to you about London I want to talk to you instead about a fella named Dan pink he's a very well regarded author whose books I've never read but I heard him in an interview recently talked about a concept called surrogacy now according to dictionary.com surrogacy historically refers to a woman becoming pregnant with the fertilized egg of another woman Kim Kardashian apparently did that recently fair play to her but that's not what Dan pink meant by surrogacy as he explains in this article I've become a huge believer in Sarah Gatien the psychological concept that if you want to know what an experience is going to be like find someone similarly situated and ask for their experience a very good way to avoid failure is to learn on someone else's dime let them make the mistakes and then learn from those mistakes I much prefer learning from other people's mistakes than from my own so basically this is a way to learn much faster if a particular plan is right for you without having to walk down that path very far yourself and you know I am all about online business so as an example let's say you want to become a professional freelance copywriting ninja adopting the principle of surrogacy all you need to do is become pregnant with the fertilized egg of another professional freelance copywriting ninja no wait that's the wrong definition let's try that again adopting the psychological principle of surrogacy you would reach out to an established professional freelance copywriting ninja that is someone who is literally doing what you want to be doing and earning the kind of money you want to be earning and asked about their experience ask for their recommendations ask for the pros and cons of their chosen path ask what they do differently if they or starting over not only can you get great advice this way and save yourself a ton of trial and error but you also begin to build a relationship with someone you admire and I could lead to referrals the could lead to an apprenticeship perhaps an informal mentorship who knows let's take another example this one not related to online business say you want to have a baby but you aren't keen on doing the whole pregnancy thing well conveniently enough that's a situation good ol Kim Kardashian found herself in recently well what are you leaning towards like do you think you would be pregnant again or have a surrogate obviously I do want to have my own baby but I feel like I truly don't know if my body can handle it one more time you should talk to somebody maybe who's used to surrogate yeah so there we have Kim Kardashian interested in biological surrogacy and Chloe or Kourtney or Kylie or whoever Kardashian recommending that you use the concept of psychological surrogates to figure out if it's a good idea for her that's like surrogacy inside surrogacy something so this so anyway this concept of surrogate is great and you should give it a try next time you're thinking of doing something new as the saying goes the best way to walk through a minefield is in someone else's footsteps see you later suckers so I leave you with a challenge and that challenge is this try reaching out to three people who are doing what you'd like to be doing or who have achieved what you would like to achieve compliment them on their success and ask what one piece of advice would you give to someone to just starting ouch limit yourself to one question like that accompany it with a compliment and you're much more likely to get a response and hey if you like this video give us an L click on the like button there and hit subscribe if you'd like to see more from me I promise I will never mention the Kardashians again thanks for watching and I'll see you in the next video

2 thoughts on “Surrogation – Learn From The Mistakes Of Others And Avoid Failure”

  1. Jesus Niall, please don't include that woman (Kim) in your videos anymore. I'm begging you, please! Otherwise great motivational video as always! 🙂

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