3 Simple Ways to Get Noticed by Rich Men

How to make a wealthy man notice you? Ladies, the competition is tough today. And if you ever going to land that affluent
man. It’s not only being part of high society that
is required from you. You also need to beat the competition. How do we beat competition? It all boils down from being first of all
noticed because there is an array of women out there that cross the paths with men
on a daily basis. But how would you stand out to these men? How would you be the one who’s noticed in
their eyes? Sadly today there is this trend of thinking
that more is more. Thinking that if you apply more makeup. If you put in more hair extensions. If you show more skin, then people think that
that’s going to get you noticed that everyone in the room will look at you and want you
to become their wife or girlfriends. Well, you hear how silly that sounds, right? You won’t get the appropriate attention when
you take this method. You will only attract guys who are not serious,
men who maybe want to have an arrangement with you or maybe just some temporarily fun. There are two different types of women that
men want to marry or have a serious relationship with and then you know the type of women who
they just want to have for some pleasure seeking. So I’m going to give you three fundamental
ways how you can first of all, catch the right attention and
of course be noticed at the same time. Number one. Confidence. How confident you look when you enter a room? How confident do you look when you just walk
around? How confident do you look when you are just
taking a stroll on the street? How confident do you look when you’re sitting
at a bar hoping to meet somebody? Many things you have to ask yourself when
it comes to confidence and you also have to understand that there is a right way of applying
confidence. You don’t want to have too much confidence
because that can make you appear very masculine and you might scare people off. Another way of too much confidence is when
you just behave like a diva. And that’s not really the direction where
we want to go either. And total lack of confidence makes you appear
like a grey mouse type of thing. You might also attract the wrong people people
who might not have the best agenda or maybe people who would like to use you and so on. So you have to understand that confidence
is very important. If you want to be a woman who cares for self
where people respect her then you have to use confidence because that’s what’s going
to give you and show people that you are a woman of value. In my online finishing school I talk to my students all the time about the importance of image development, how you really have to have your image all figured out and very much on point but that can only be applied and
work if you use confidence because with confidence people believe that message You can wear a beautiful dress. You can wear a beautiful designer bag but nobody’s really going to believe that you are an affluent woman. If you don’t also carry yourself with that
confidence with that belief that you are her, that you are who you claim you are. So going back to how men are going to notice
you thanks to confidence. Think about it this way You enter a room and
you’re walking confidently, not like arrogantly, not like you think you’re the best and all
that. A little bit of that is good because that is definitely going to boost your confidence level but you want to walk into a room and feel like in the way like you own it but not
like you are better than everybody else because that that type of attitude always pushes people away. So when you have this confident walk, this
confident posture, body movement, way of speech, everything that has to do really with body
language. And add on top of that that you’re there beautifully dressed perfectly groomed
and then you walk into this room. The man will be like Who is this woman?! Wow, interesting! You see, it’s not very hard to be noticed, really,
if you just use confidence Even if you look not leveled up at all. If you walk confidently, if you are confident,
people are going to notice you men are going to notice you. Men might get so infatuated by you when they
see you walking in there, they might say to themselves: “You know what, She might not be exactly the tenor that I wanted my woman to be but wow she fascinates me! Her confidence just radiates. I have to speak to her!” I’ve seen this happen all the time, ladies. Confidence is something that is free of charge, Okay. You don’t need to have money to have
confidence. All you need is to start working on it. Once you have confidence, you can convince
people to anything. Literally, you will own this space. So make sure you really make use of confidence. Number two. Be elegant. There is a lot of beautiful woman out there
today. Beauty is extremely accessible today even
in the lower classes. Surgery, fillers, beauty treatments. It’s not anymore just something for the rich. It’s not something for those who have a good
financial situation. Anyone can actually become more beautiful
than how it was back in the days. So beauty is accessible and that’s why competition
is tough. OK. However I’m going to share with you a secret
and that is there are many beautiful women out there. There are many sexy women out there but you
know what there’s not many of today? That’s elegant women. Elegant women are a rarity. And especially with how the whole kind of
Kim Kardashian era. And you know the current trends right now. Elegance is not on top of people’s minds. Now it’s all about kind of looking casual,
and 90s, and all kinds of different trends. If you on the other hand, you behave elegantly,
you dress elegant, you have an elegant body language, you are like an entire elegant package, you are going to stand out. You don’t have to be on the level of the royal house. You don’t have to be Kate Middleton or Meghan Markle but you have to have some form of elegance because it is a rarity. And you’d be surprised how much men in high
society appreciate elegance. And I’m sure they will appreciate because
it is a rarity. So what can you do to be more elegant? Obviously, the whole theme of my online finishing school is teaching women elegance. So if you do want to learn more on that, go to schoolofaffluence.com and find out. You can also watch more of my videos on this
channel go and have a browse after this video because I have plenty of free content that
at least can give you a kickstart on how to level up and how to become more elegant in
your everyday life. So having said that, elegance is important
but we still have one more Number three. Be feminine. Like I said in the previous point there is
already an abundance of sexy women sex is everywhere today. Unfortunately sex sells, which is why everybody
in today’s society have just taking it and overusing it. Sex has become boring at the same time. We’ve seen it. We understand. OK. Been there done that. Now let’s find something more interesting. So that’s a little bit how men think. Men are not
really impressed by sexuality as much as they were maybe before when it was more restricted. So they need something that will really catch
their eye for attention plus also I feel like you know dressing sexy it is so unoriginal. It really does not make a person stand out
today. School of Affluence is about elegance. It’s about being a high value woman. We would not want to sell ourselves short this way We wouldn’t want to sell our soul just so that we can get noticed. We are not desperate for men on this channel. We want to catch attention of serious men,
of men with potential, of men of high caliber, and such men tend not to seek out the skimpy
looking girls. So what you must do for that reason ladies
is focus on femininity. Again it’s a mantra in School of Affluence
but this is what hooks a man. This is what will make a man notice you. Who do you think men would rather approach
in a room? Do you think that would approach Kim Kardashian? Or do you think they would approach Monica Bellucci? Because I think a comparison between
these two is very very good. You will notice the difference between sexy
and feminine. They’re more or less similar looking but totally
different styles. And I can promise you, I’ve heard a million
times more men raving about Monica Bellucci. How attractive, how sexy, how everything she is. Sexy is of course their way of describing how she attracts them because of this feminine
power that she has. While how many men do I show say that “Oh my God. Kim Kardashian. I love her, she’s so sexy, she’s so attractive.” I think you know the answer to this one. Femininity is something that I talk so much more about in my course. But I want you to think more how you can implement
it in your life. Think about maybe if you can do it through
body language, how you dress, or so and so on. Seek out some feminine role models perhaps. By the way if you still haven’t watched my video “6 things that turn rich men off” then
I really recommend you to watch it now. That was it for me, ladies! Go now and watch my next video.

100 thoughts on “3 Simple Ways to Get Noticed by Rich Men”

  1. It's so true about being the grey mouse, we do get the wrong type of attention from men who seek 'easy' target just because they think we will be grateful for anyone asking us out and will open our legs. That's not the case. Just because some women do not wear expensive clothes or put on a lot of make up, doesn't make them 'simple minded' or 'easy target'. From personal experience – I used to get asked by foreigners to go out and being from Eastern Europe I know it's a huge red flag to avoid, especially the foreigners from different cultures. Or local men frankly telling me they like my type because, according to them, we will be happy with kebabs and rented DVDs for a date, nothing wrong with either, just not the first line you want to hear from the guy you just met.

  2. You can as well change the name of the video to "Introduction to Golddigging". You define your self as an affluent woman yet you post videos about chasing and finding rich man to marry and affirm the gender roles that are imposed on many societies with this channel. Unacceptable and pathetic.

  3. True high class women do not even think about their competition. They know who they are, they naturally show their beauty.

  4. This is so refreshing. At 25 years old, I've finally started to realise how important it is to look elegant and polished, as opposed to cheap looking. Thank you

  5. Stop giving this woman hate or commenting I dOnT nEed a Man . Like thats fine, then why are you on this video then???

  6. Honest Talk: I do not want the head office nor do I want to be "my own rich man". I do want love and attraction from the guy I want but at the same time I crave stability. He needs to have something going for him besides wanting to be with me. I want a man of influence and I'm admitting that. I want my own career too but he can be the main person in charge. I will let him have it and I want him to have it. 2019 has turned me into the most traditional girl ever ok. I blame 2015 for my emerging change but I blame 2019 for my complete turn. While I'm in college, I'm looking for a man who wants to be a man, even if we do not stay together, at least I tried and I can move on to another man that wants to be a MAN.

  7. “There are a lot of beautiful women out there” true. But there are not a lot of naturally beautiful women out there. It’s one thing to get surgery, fillers, hair extensions, lash extensions, whatever. Natural beauty without all that is rare.

  8. Why should we want rich men to notice us? Smart, friendly, funny and elegant men perhaps, being rich does not imply you have all of the above features or even that you are a decent person. Besides that, smart women don't need a rich man they earn their own money. What builds confidence by the way, your elegant dress and make-up is only superficial confidence.

  9. Agree about femininity. I am considered quite attractive, and I am also very feminine (because I love my feminity and flaunt it with pride) which makes men attracted to me like moths to a flame – even when I am with friends who are just as attractive and wearing more revealing clothes.

  10. Although i don’t really care about the man part , i love being elegant and modest fashion and femininity that’s why i enjoy watching you , i love to dress up and being good looking even if i’m going to the grocery store so people always call me extra and all ( this ) is not needed , i really don’t care and i will still do what i like but i feel like its sad sometimes, we used to look put together everywhere in the past put now people watch you with very strange looks 🙁

  11. I accidentally watched LOL that Kim K. was on TV and she was asked to words her friends would use to describe her. She replied sweet and smart. I spit out my tea. I would put her up against my fourth grade niece any day! Horrible she is a real bottle for so many generations but at least we know that the devil has his soldiers out there and with that in our standards being as high as they are widow how to fix that and be a better role model to our up and coming generations.

  12. I don’t understand why a lot of “I don’t need a man cause i can be my own rich man” comment. Don’t people read the title of this video? Or they just too bored with their life so they decide to spread negativity in someone video?

    Btw I accidentally found your channel last night and I binged watch it. She is teach us how to become best version of ourselves.

  13. Girls made your fortunes by yourself ! and be the captain of your life 💪🏼 Be strong and independent and found a loving man

  14. Anna, you are so right. Elegance is a rarity these days. Hence the popularity of the trashy Kardashian's to think you could get rich by being trashy is beyond me, but it happened in america. Like you said they wear work out clothes everywhere even on dates (wow) . I am the same as you and look at this style and just say oh my. I really love your channel and all your tips. You are a breath of fresh air. Thank you for reminding me that being classy is never out of style.

  15. Y'all here wanna find a sugar daddy lol

    lol I clicked on this just so I could write this comment I know u r gonna like it

  16. I totally agree with the elegant part there is no more ! I need to sign up to your school ! I’m 20 and I love it !!! I love how you think !!!!

  17. Funny how many comments that state they don’t need a rich man—why did you even click on this video if you didn’t want to hear her advice. 🤔

  18. I know a very classy educated millionaire he likes me he's super nice. But I don't know how to act with him. I'm super shy. This will help me a great deal thanks.

  19. Is having a tattoo will jeopardise or will not i m kind of going in there not that i want to attract men(but who knows) but to carry myself confidently and maybe achieving my dream. What do u say? Anyone.

  20. Hey my dear you forgot one big fat important way: EDUCATION . In our world education is King!! The best universities in the world will give you the opportunity to meet your prince 👑 intelligent women are always noticeable! 😄

  21. And how about to embrace you’re self !! Love you’re self !! Etcétera etc …wow I guess I’m extinct !! I work and I don’t need a rich man ..

  22. I would love to hear a video about the spiritual aspect of who you attract and how you can use your feminine energy according to your natural talents with who you are from the soul like your birth chart and aura.

    For instance Venus determines how we express our femininity and what type of men we attract while Jupiter is our actual husband and Mars represents all the men who chase us but are not good to date.
    For instance my Venus is in Aries and my husband is an alpha type of man who loves the gym and is built like a tall athlete while being an intelligent business man.
    Women with Venus in Aries can attract the athletic types while women with Venus in Leo can attract the famous or flamboyant types and women with Venus in Libra can attract the charming wealthy types and so forth.
    Perhaps you could get an astrologer to add to your discussions out of interest with one of your video series

  23. I am the grey mouse people used and abused. I don't want to be that mouse anymore. But all I could do so far to achieve that goal is reducing my social life to almost none.

  24. I’m thankful I met my husband in church. He treats me like a queen still after 25 years. Worth more than all the money in the world. I look my personal best for God and for my husband every day. More importantly I try to be a better person every day. Joy!

  25. its interesting how women think they dont want a relationship or that education will compensate for a relationship. Education is essential, but dont stop there ladies, you know you want THE man, and the right man who is successful, because when you have your children, he's gotta be able to provide for you and them…and THAT is essential to his masculinity and your nest building instincts when you start your families, if that is what you want. If you want a career only, go for it, you have to be happy. But remember, your career will never keep you warm at night.
    My father used to say you can always get married, get an education….actually its the other way around, you can always get an education-no matter what your age…but your window for marriage and children is limited-biologically!

  26. I sent your videos to my daughter who is 30 and a professional. Even though I have raised her with most of these rules- she found them very insulting. That she does not need to act like a proper lady to find a wealthy man. New money does not care.

    Is this true that new money expects less form women?

  27. Excellent advice -it’s not that easy getting insight into personal style and class. Femininity is so important

  28. I am shy Ik not confident but I’ll try.
    Everyone in my class was loud or vsco.
    Yet the guy that they all liked, liked me! Idk why because I’m not rich I’m quiet his friend told me that he did and that made me even more shy.

  29. Examples of confidence I notice:
    Playfulness, not easily offended, friendly, confident enough to admit she wants companionship, uses makeup sparingly, embraces her natural hair color! Natural is beautiful! Many guys I know agree with me we are tired of hair dye and fake nails etc.
    Elegance I notice: dress to look professional and feminine! Not necessarily to look sexy, but to look womanly.
    Fantastic points, thanks for the upload!

  30. The entire concept of women getting noticed by a rich man in 2019 is insulting and a bad example for young girls. Focus on getting an education, being economically independent and enriching your cultural life. Women are better than that.

  31. She has good points, these can apply in attracting the right peoples in career, making things happen, drawing the right peoples into your circle. It may not be only attracting rich man.

  32. Golddiggers. I still think it's messed up to use people. If course if these rich men like to be used, who am I to judge

  33. Too much emphasis on financial aspect and not enough talk about the quality of relationships. I’d much rather care about being with an honest, reliable and loyal man from my circle. And then grow together to where u want to be…

  34. The way u talk about being elegant comes of kind of snobbish. But i do agree being rachet is wayyyyy more common now then elegant/class is

  35. Do elegant women smoke cigarettes or drink or go to the club(once in a while )? And actually what are their habbits

  36. The elegant body language you've mentioned has caught my attention. How can one learn that? Learning apropriate manners, elegant wardrobe etiquette, mastering how to speak and increasing one's intelligence might be quite easy, but, what about body language? How can one train that without going stiff or 'unnatural'?

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